Life Isssue of Mine

[Rei Ann]

So I'm feeling down lately, sad and emoish. It seems every single friend I have in the real worlds has made some kinda of plan to either go partying or out tonight, they thing is not a single one thought to invite me, no instead, I was yet again over looked. I tried to talking to my best friend and she goes...ugh, stop being emo, it's annoying your complaining to much and this is the first time, I've said anything negative to her in a long time. So I'm pissed and want to cry all at the same time, and feel like the biggest loser in the world, and since no one seems to care in my real world, I thought, I would rant here.

[Peppiemint]

Awww. D:
Poor you. -gives a huggle-
I hope you feel better soon >3<

[Chu]

Wow, I kind of understand what you're going through but the difference in yours and my situation is that I bring these things upon myself in an attempt to get away from everyone, so I'm fine with it.

Anyway, it's probably best to try to talk to her again, and explain that she's doing exactly what's been hurting you again. Another way to go is show them some rejection as well but not everyone responds to that in the right way.

It's terrible though, that they did that to you. Happy belated New Years anyway. :]

[Chi]

Oh Rei Ann I think I know what your going through as I've went through it many many times in my life.

I always think I get overlooked and people just seem like they just don't care about me unless I'm replacing their other friends.

For your best friend to say something like that to you is obviously enough not your friend. But, I could be wrong. You can try talking to her like Chu has suggested. I've had a couple of those sorts of 'best friend' and when for the first time I'm questioning stuff it all turned out all so wrong and it took a little bit, but I left them and made new and MUCH better friends.

I've felt the pain of this before but try to be strong and find a new friend who will understand you more than those other people who just only wants 'fun' instead of actually listening to another individuals problem.

I hope you feel better soon as I hate people feeling this way.

[Jandi]

Aw! I know exactly what you mean. Some of my friends do that to me and it makes me feel horrible. I hate when they do stuff without me and look over me :/ and then when there's no one else to hang out with then they'll hang out with you, So many people have done that to me.

My advice would be to just try to like... I don't know how exactly to say this. But maybe confront them? If not look for more friends who would love to hang out with you any time/ anyplace/any where.

Don't let them bring you down. My mom always says to me, "don't let your friends bring you down, i'll be your best friend" because of how some of my friends act. Just try to stay happy

[KittinVonTease]

I have felt that way a time or two. My roomate is famous for ditching me anytime she gets a phone call from a guy. I try not to take it too personal, some people just don't understand that their actions can have a negative effect on someone else. Maybe your friends assumed that their plans for the night were not your type of thing. Maybe try telling them that you're kinda down lately and could use a little bit of attention.

Hope you feel comforted...everyone goes through this =)