Just say "sex"!

[ecco]

We got taught about puberty and sex ed in school at ageeee 10/11 i think? possibely even 9 for the puberty stuff..

you could say thats good. i do think its important to teach it before its too late, so to speak. it would just be nice if they actually told the truth (for example they tell you that if you get pregnant, you'll stop having periods - usually true, but in some cases you can still have them whilst pregnant. i know ALOT of girls who have thought "i might be pregnant, but ill wait til i have a period to know im not rather than get a pregnancy test" - its stupid. but they only think like that because they havent been told the truth.)

[Urboros]

eh, my mother was different she scared me and my sister with all the technical stuff of sex. The information overload scared us away and then after we started to understand we came back to her with all sorts of sex questions.

which was nice now that I think about it, we weren't scared to come to our mother for questions

[[[Rainbow Crack]]]

Sex has become one of my favorite words lately. xD;
I was even joking around with my mom about it. [[But I do remember being a little uptight about even the word sexy. :P]]

Like, my sister was trying to think of a little game she could make for a night she had to help teach the youth group. She thought she'd have everyone write down three important needs for a healthy relationship between a man and a woman, so she need my mom's and my help.
My number one thing [[just to mess with them, of course. I believe in abstinence. C:]] on the sheet of paper was "SEEEEEEX". They got a kick outta it. :]

I hope my kids are like this with me. xD;

[ecco]

but i think sex is important in a relationship o.o;; i mean if you and your partner havent had sex at all cos you both believe you should wait til marriage, i gues its different, but like if you have already been having sex then things turn sour thats a problem for the relationship xD;

[Freshie]

Then again, intimacy in general is important in a relationship. Snuggling and cuddling is just as sexy. ^^;;

I remember the chart someone in a heath book. Having passion, commitment, and love equal the best kind of relationship.
Passion and love without commitment = summer fling.
Passion and commitment without love = friends with benefits.
Commitment with love without passion = marriage.
(note, I'm not saying anything above is true for all relationships, they're examples, and how the last one is, yeah married people still have sex..but sometimes they dont)

..found the chart.
I was off a bit. xD

Also, for you religious ones...

[ecco]

thats a very insightful chart, actually... thanks for sharing freshie ^^ im gonna post it to facebook... just to see what anyone thinks haha

[Freshie]

Welcome ^^
I remember seeing one of them in one of my health classes when I was in school. ^^

Also..my mother showed me a sex book, all about sexual..whatever with people in it. Its from the 70s though...so it has hairy naked men. D:
Its scary really. ;_;

Psst, wanna add me on facebook? :o
(Melissa Butcher)

[ecco]

ahah oh god, the videos! never mind the cartoons about sex, those were hilarious... it was the video of a woman giving birth that scarred me for life. i think i have a genuine fear of pregnancy because of it O_O


XD sure. ill try n find you.
Melanie Lewin btw. o3o

[Freshie]

I know I myself, would never like to give birth. I dont want children in general, but if I ever do. I shall adopt. It also helps control the population a bit and give a home to someone who needs it. ^^
Also I'm pro-choice.

Also
http://www.facebook.com/home.php?#/profile.php?ref=name&id=745970461

[ecco]

yea, ill probably adopt if i have enough money one day (as in, to support the child in a comfortable life - i see too many people starting families they cant afford. i dont think its fair to the children)

tho i still would like to have a biological child... i dont think its good to have lots of kids cos of the population, but yea xD i would like a child that is really mine also. i just... really really never want to be pregnant. i need a surrogate mummy haha XD


im pro-choice too. i think "pro-life" is an oxymoron - you know, given that being pregnant can kill the mother. >:/

[Freshie]

I remember when I was younger and in my teens, I was a chaperon for a sumer kids day camp. I'm really good with kids, even if I dont want any myself. But there was this little black girl who I loved and she loved me and I'm like "Mother, I wanna adopt a little black girl!" xD

Oh, and theres also the women who'll have a baby for you, cause they like being pregnant and carrying a little something in them. Just pop one of your fertilized eggs in them and woo..that way you can have a biological child without having the birth.

Yeah, thats actually a very good point on the pro-choice. ^^

[ecco]

aww thats sweet XD i do like kids. its funny, when you see a little kid, you can tell wether their parents have got it right or not by their attitude and how happy they are. some children seem so unhappy... i mean, the other day i saw a toddler crying following his mum and she actually shoved him and went "oh shut up!" i was like "dude wth are you doing??" she shoved him pretty hard as well, he almost fell down. u_u

hehe thats definitely the way to go for me xD

[Freshie]

I know. My mother tried to raise me to have the perfect childhood since she herself, wasn;t so lucky. It was the 60s, farm life with a bunch of other siblings and abuse. Back then birth control wasnt heard of, and it was ok for the men in the family to abuse behind close doors and to demand sex from his wife. The only reason my grandmother married my grandfather was cause they had a child outta wedlock, like how they were suppose to during those times. He died before I was born so yeah
My mother and father married, but never could get pregnant, it took 8 years for me to pop out. So my parents and other relatives are older then most people my age would have. ^^
Unlike mine, my boyfriend's mother had him when she was in her late teens, as with my step-mother's first children.

[ecco]

ouch >.> well its lucky things arent quite so bad these days... tho course that kinda thing still goes on .__. which... sucks. >.<

theres a guy at college who moved to england from france, not long ago he said that "everyone in england has really young parents - mine are much older than all of yours" i told him my dad was 49 and he was like "oh.... well your dad is just special then" XD it made me LOL~ :B

[Freshie]

My dads now 61. ;-;