Unobtainable

[Lunar]

So I went out last night with some friends of mine, to a gig, it was amazing, but why is it I always fall for unobtainable people?
A few years or so I fell for a 40-something year old guy (Shut up.) who was heavily unobtainable, and this time, this person isnt AS unobtainable but still.

One of the frontmen of one of the bands, was singing, and he had a really good voice and the style of the band was just lovely I kept finding myself closing my eyes and taking it in, but I kept looking at him, trying to figure him out.. he had that whole "bad boy" look about him yet you could tell he would be one of the nicest people you'd ever met (And he was, I'll get to that.) but at one or two points, he made eye contact with me (Oh. Jesus.) But it wasnt like a flickering eye contact, he would really.. look at me, for about a minute, his eyes directly staring into mine.. really.. connecting. I swear. I could've died.

So.. at the end of the gig when another band was playing, he somehow ended up standing next to me against the wall, after he'd wondered back in, so at the end I turned to him and complimented him on the set, and we got talking about his band and the gig and we had Irish roots in common and stuff and Mikey and I (My best friend) ended up having to go cus it was getting late, but he was thrilled I loved the music and he was really nice.

I spent all night tossing and turning in bed because I wanted to get online and find him and find out if he was single (Heaven forbid God would like to give me a break and he would be) I got on today and managed to add him and found he was in a relationship (Surprise. ¬_¬) I'd played the scenario in my head earlier that I would comment his girlfriend was lucky to have him and he would say that they were having problems and I'd wish them well but not shove myself in there.. but from their profiles I can see they're very much in love..

It's nice for some people, huh.

Oh well.
Maybe I'll get a break one day. <3

[Urboros]

wow, i never fall for those people.
<.< I wouldn't know, but I'd imagine if you really like the guy you'd want him to be happy no matter who he was dating.

i'm sure you'll get a break, you might not know what it is or when it happens but everyone gets at least one or two breaks in their life.

[anxiety]

that sucks, i try not to all for the guys i dont think i can get.

i have a nice boy. the only guy i've ever been with 2 years :3. but i still like to look once in a while hehehe

[Lunar]

See I've been talking to him online, and I think he really likes me, and they're not as in love as I thought.. but.. he's still taken.. D:
Kind of sucks, I keep listening to his bands EP on myspace..
Maybe one day.. huh. XD

[sychobunny]

I've fallen for a taken guy once, and he was a musician too! and they were really in love and when I found out she wasn't the b**** she was 3 years prior, I was really sad because I couldn't be mad at her any more. And then I moved. Aww so sad.
You can always wait patiently and see if they break up, or if he has an even more amazing friend.

[anxiety]

call me evil but i was thinking sabotage

[Lunar]

See I'm too nice for sabotage. I just cant do it, and theres nothing wrong with his girlfriend but he seems to think she doesnt appreciate him as much as he would like, but I just laughed about it.

I think my best bet is just to get cozy with him, as a friend.. stroke, groupie.. lol omg.. and just see how fate plays this one out..

Though fate has hated me recently. x_x

[anxiety]

yeah im to nice to sabotage to. i plot though. nother leaves me head though makes me feel better i guess lol

[Lunar]

My stomachs been in knots all today, like it knows something important is going to happen soon..
Everytime I get an email from Facebook, I'm hopeful, but it's never a reply from him..
I hope he does reply again.. I hate being the last one to leave a message. D:

[anxiety]

lol i know how you feel

i get like anxiety from that of thing to and about waiting for message

[glimpse]

Aww I'm sorry, that must feel awful. ):
The only unobtainable person I ever fell for is actually now my BEST and DEAREST friend. When I told them, I was shot down [D:] but we decided to stay friends and have become really close since then.
If you become his friend first, someone he can trust, then romance may follow. (:
ALSO. If it's been a while since he responded to your message, you can send a follow up one. Something casual like,

"Hey I had a rotten day, how was yours?"
"Hey it's been a while, what's new?"
"Hey, I saw [something] and it made me think of you! How have you been?"

[Sol]

wow.... you didnt wait long to rid of me then.... what 1 - 2 weeks

[Sol]

for all I care you can burn, he was probably looking into the crowd probably thinking why the fuck is this sack of shit looking at me...

[Fallain]

Never say never!

I'll tell you a story: Long long time ago when I was a little, shy 9th grader I would see this guy standing in the hallway in the same spot everyday when I went to 2nd period. (or maybe 3rd...my memory sucks so sue me, thats not the important part) And he was GORGEOUS. He had long black hair, his skin wasn't pale but wasn't tan, he wasn't short but he wasn't tall, he wasn't muscly but he wasn't fat and he had suuuuuuuch a cute voice.

And I would STARE at him everyday and draw him in class and daydream about him all the time. I even saw him around school other times and I would actually follow him like a creepy stalker and I didn't even know his name. He caught me staring at him a few times and my heart would literally jump and i'd have butterflies for HOURS.

Well one day he passed by me in the cafeteria and I pointed him out to a friend telling her what a huge crush I had on him. Well another "friend" who was a senior heard me and got pissed. She told me that he was a senior and I was jail bait so I had better stay away from him because he was hers.

So I did. I cried but I was too shy to say anything to him and too scared to go against that girl. And then he graduated early that semester and I never saw him again.

4 years later, i'm a senior myself and waiting around after school to give a friend a ride home and who should walk in to hang fliers for his band's upcoming show around the school? THAT GUY!

I'm 4 years older, been through high school drama and emo hell and back and a hell of a lot braver. So I go over to him and say hey.

And he REMEMBERED ME! I never spoke to him but he remembered me as the girl ...that wore kitty cat ears to school...(I was alittle retarded back then, ok?!) and stared at him. He even remembered seeing that girl yelling at me that day in the cafeteria and apparently they got in a fight afterwards because he didn't want her "being mean to the kids".

So he gave me his myspace. Then his AIM. Then his phone number. And then one day he was at my house wanting to hang out.

Our 5 year anniversary is coming up

So even if at the time you think it's impossible, don't give up! You may not get what you want as soon as you want it, and you may not know when you'll get it, but everything happens for a reason and who knows, maybe one day you will get what you want.

[heyy13]

lol, not as unobtainable as you think.

If he wants to be with you he will. But all this talking about how much he likes you whilst still in a relationship smacks of intention to "cheat", on his part.

That being said i'm a beliver in anyone who will leave someone for you will leave you for someone. So i may not work anyways.

But it might! The whole concert scene just seems like picking up and if he's trying to pick up when he's allready in a relationship, again he's probably not what your looking for.

I'd stay in contact, see if he does eventually break up with his girlfriend and go after him then. But until then i'd look elsewhere.

In anycase i wish you luck. But yeah, what band is this? I'm curious to go find out what he looks like now. xD;;