Anti-Social ppl rant

[Overlord Branny]

Sooo..idk..
I'm just so frustrated at stupid people online..
I have so many people on my AIM/MSN list..yet only a handful of these people IM me...weekly maybe...a quick hello and they are back to looking at porn or whatever they're doing to waste their time..

All I want is a chat...I feel lonely sometimes and at those moments I usually depend on the words of another to brighten up my foggy mood.

I IM these people...and they just..IGNORE the IM...they see it and just ignore it....then after a hour they're like "Oh hey, sorry was watching a video on youtube" or something like "Oh sorry i have ADD" no, you're a ASS. Don't use ADD as an excuse for being a douche who doesn't know how to actually talk to someone.

Also, I can't stand people who ignore PM's on say...HERE...
Everyone knows I'm very talkative and happy to chat with anyone that wishes...and sometimes I like to randomly chat with someone in PM because no one else is talking on the forum...

And I see that they read it...and I see them replying on the forum a bit later yet they ignore the PM, don't even bother to reply.

YOU KNOW WHO YOU ARE TOO...
And I hate you for it.

Maybe I'm too push but it just annoys me...why are you so anti-social? Why can't you carry on a conversation for more then a few words and then wander off like a half witted dolt?

ADD isn't a good enough reason and you aren't worthy to be on a forum, go away.

Ahhhh...I feel better. <3

[Tsemara]

Sorry that people don't reply or reply half assed to your IMs.

In a sense, I'm somewhat guilty of doing that same thing, on AIM. There's a few cool people that I enjoy chatting with. Unfortunately there are also a couple that have a tendency to get on my nerves. They aren't bad people. One's just a bit messed up and stalker-ish. The other is too opinionated for their own good. But that's besides the point.

I don't want to be an ass and say "stop IMing me! You drive me nuts!" But I aslo don't want to get involved in long and pointless discussions about things I really don't care about. For now, I sit in the invisible zone, where no one can IM me because they don't know I'm on. Which bites for the people that I'd like to talk to. But in that case I'll IM them first, and have the other guys be none the wiser.

You know... I don't know if that answered your question, or made any sense at all. But if you need someone to chat with you're welcome to drop me a line. I'm usually online.

[Overlord Branny]

Nah, I don't really talk to you in general just because I never seen you on much...lol

Its just a few people...just those..few..
that are complete assholes and its like...why?
Have I given you any reason to be such a douch?? Noooo

So whatever...guess I shouldn't bitch since I shouldn't want anything to do with ppl like that anyways..lol

[Tsemara]

It doesn't help that I've been pulling all nighters these past two weeks, so I'm sleeping a majority of the day anyway. Kind of hard to talk to people when you're asleep, you know? Heh.

Or are you talking about AIM? I'm using an invisibility cloak on that one. So I'm online, but no one knows. Unless I contact them.

And I agree, you're better off without talking to people who purturb you that way. It's less of a headache in the long run.

[Chu]

Honestly, it doesn't bother me. Probably because I'm guilty of ignoring messages for any of the following reasons:
1. I have nothing left to say.
2. I'm busy and/or I forget.
3. I just don't feel like talking.

So, I try to be understanding. I'm not the type to make myself obliged to talk to someone. That's just stupid. As a result, I don't make people obliged to me. I don't really look at people or conversations as anything that I particularly need; they're just objects that I use to entertain myself every now and then. That's probably why I don't get upset when I'm ignored.

Of course, there are always exceptions to that. For people that I'm closer to, for more serious conversations, etc. But in general, I've learned not to take things on the internet too seriously. Too much work.

[Overlord Branny]

Its one thing when its a random person...its another when the individual is someone you know and have known for awhile and they just ignore it.

I'm the type to atleast tell them I don't want to talk or that I'm busy and I'll talk to them later..

Because I figure that person took time out of their day to say hello to me so I can atleast say "Ohai! Sorry I'm busy right now I'll talk later!"

Instead of just ignoring them and making them think i'm a douche. lmao

[Chu]

Haha, I guess I understand that.

I dunno. I guess laziness kicks in for me at that point. Once I run out of things to say, I'm done. XD I don't stop replying because of anything personal, so I don't expect them to take it personally.

[Overlord Branny]

I suppose I take it personally sometimes..
I regard all my conversations as I would with a real chat with someone. I wouldn't just randomly look at them and walk off mid-convo. x.x

Well maybe I have but thats only because they were being odd.

[Chu]

Hahaha, that's an odd way to look at it.

Well, not odd when you think about it. But I don't think that most people regard conversations over the Internet in that way.


Come to think of it, I've never been very good at ending conversations. It feels awkward. That may be a reason that I just drop them.

[Martyr]

I try to be social with people, and don't mind going out of my way to talk; since I live in the UK and most of the people here live in the US I have to stay up until 3 or 4 am to talk to them. The only time I can actually stay up this late is on my days off (which thankfully are around 5 nights a week), but I try to limit it to Fridays, Saturdays and sometimes Sundays.

With the PMs on here, I don't always notice them! I remember that fairly recently (perhaps yesterday even), I didn't even notice that I had 2 messages for almost an hour. Not to mention I'm usually lurking on the forums and spend a huge amount of time RPing or catching up on the latest posts. So I'm sorry if I don't reply straight away, I just haven't noticed yet!

I'm not a big fan of IMing or any social networking sites, so I'm typically unreachable in that respect, but I've recently started AIMing with a particular someone on here (I'm so sorry for just leaving you like that this morning!) so I can now be reached at least a little.

And finally I'm not ashamed to admit it; I am opinionated, selfish and attention seeking! Just don't hold it against me! I'm used to talking and assume that everyone ignores what I've said or just switches off. I don't mind! For me talking about something is the easiest way for me to let it go, so I will get carried away and ignore you sometimes, but I'm not trying to be rude. If I often haven't had my daily bitching session, I turn into quite a spiteful person and let my punches hit home at full pelt; which is not something anyone wants to experience, nor do I want to them to experience it. I guess it's from having hung around girls a lot of my life and became engrossed in their bad habits.

However, that being said; I can be a good listener and try to offer the best advice that I possibly can. If you need a serious conversation then I can do that too, but I guess I get carried away as usual and I just don't shut up. When that happens and you feel uncomfortable or annoyed then just tell me so! Feel free to shout at me, "Shut up! I'm talking!" or "Can for once it not be about you!". I promise you I won't take it personally, as I know what I'm like and that I can be difficult to be around.

So, um yeah. I really am a nice person, honest! It's just that I'm myself and I'm not changing any time soon! And sorry for this essay of a post!

[Vesper]

I never, ever ignore PMs when I'm online.
Of course, if I leave and I forget to say, I won't reply for a while.
But I always try to find a way to reply, even if whoever's talking to me is talking about something personal, sad, something they're unhappy about.

It's hard to come up with replies sometimes, but I try. :3